“Maharaja Parikshit, the grandson of the Pandavas, was from his very childhood a great devotee of the Lord. Even while playing with dolls, he used to worship Lord Krishna by imitating the worship of the family Deity.” (Shrimad Bhagavatam, 2.3.15)
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स वै भागवतो राजा
पाण्डवेयो महा-रथः
बाल-क्रीडनकैः क्रीडन्
कृष्ण-क्रीडां य आददे
sa vai bhāgavato rājā
pāṇḍaveyo mahā-rathaḥ
bāla-krīḍanakaiḥ krīḍan
kṛṣṇa-krīḍāṁ ya ādade
“As a first-time parent, there are new experiences daily. Though I grew up around other children, though I spent time taking care of newborns and those learning to walk and talk, it is a completely separate ordeal when the responsibility is continuous.
“Twenty-four hours a day. Surveillance necessary even while you are asleep. I guess some people handle the pressure differently than others. I feel terrible ever leaving my child with someone else for an extended period of time. I feel as if I am cheating on the job, getting away with something I should not be doing.
“The pressure indeed mounts. Recently, I tried introducing my child to a friend. This person is of almost the exact same age. Different natures, for sure. The friend talks more. They are able to understand the language of adults better. They seem to be more behaved, but I’m sure every parent is overly critical in that area.
“My child had so much fun with their new friend. They played together, independent of adult supervision. They did not get into fights. In fact, they started to support one another. I became the bad person, seen as trying to impose law and order on a few occasions.
“The difficulty began after the friend departed. My child was so sad. They kept asking to play again. Yet this friend left, and they were not coming back for a while, as they live quite a distance away. My child was to the point of inconsolable. It was heartbreaking to watch.
“This got me to thinking. Someone must feel the same way when associating closely with the Supreme Personality of Godhead, Shri Krishna. It is on the transcendental level, as Krishna has been their best well-wishing friend since time immemorial. It is like they have found their long-lost pal.
“How to deal with such pain? I would think that is a risk in immersing oneself too much in the bhakti culture. Why become so attached to someone you will miss so much?”
This mood of separation is known as vipralambha, and as exhibited by Chaitanya Mahaprabhu it is the height of the experience in spiritual life. The exemplary devotees are the gopis of Vrindavana, who had directly felt such heartache after Krishna left their presence and went to live as the king of Mathura.
While in the case of the child the separation pain cannot be mitigated to an acceptable level, when longing for the association of the Supreme Lord the contact is direct. In other words, contemplating God’s features and desperately desiring His presence are as good as having Him nearby.
This explains the magic to the chanting of the maha-mantra in an offenseless mood: Hare Krishna Hare Krishna, Krishna Krishna, Hare Hare, Hare Rama Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare. The more I chant, the more I will feel Krishna’s presence. The more I feel Him next to me, the stronger the attachment will be.
The attachment can come about simply through hearing. From the acharyas we learn that during his childhood years the great Maharaja Parikshit used to worship a deity of Krishna. At such a young age, a person is not mature enough to follow the rules and procedures seen in an official temple.
This lack of experience does not prohibit them from engaging in worship that is on an equal level. Keeping the doll is a great way to combat loneliness at a young age. In this case the doll is as good as the person itself, as Bhagavan is not an ordinary friend.
The entire bhakti culture has the practical and attainable objective of fostering this attachment, creating a meaningful longing, and fulfilling the desire to meet through connection in yoga, which lasts beyond the present lifetime.
In Closing:
Attachment growing fast,
A bond forever to last.
But dismay after meeting,
As those moments fleeting.
Now desperately to long,
Sense of hankering strong.
Both conditions as the same,
With Krishna in separation to gain.
“One who cannot deliver his dependents from the path of repeated birth and death should never become a spiritual master, a father, a husband, a mother or a worshipable demigod.” (Shrimad Bhagavatam, 5.5.18)
In the simplest case, the person in authority can behave in a pious manner. Without ever uttering a word of instruction, without intentionally guiding the dependent along a specific path, they accomplish the goal assigned them by shastra.
“Well, later on in life I found a similar taste for the chanting. I thought that I had stumbled upon the tradition myself, only later to be reminded that I had already been exposed to the lifestyle through my childhood memories. My father was the catalyst, even though he never explained any of what he was doing. He spent not a second on instruction, but the lessons would last a lifetime.”
“Vasudeva saw that wonderful child born as a baby with four hands, holding conchshell, club, disc, and lotus flower, decorated with the mark of Shrivatsa, wearing the jeweled necklace of kaustubha stone, dressed in yellow silk, appearing dazzling like a bright blackish cloud, wearing a helmet bedecked with the vaidurya stone, valuable bracelets, earrings and similar other ornaments all over His body and an abundance of hair on His head.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 3)
Friend2: A confirmation of Divinity. Leaving no room for speculation or error. Every indication was there. The four hands, the ornaments in the right place, the mark on the chest, the dazzling beauty, and the proper color cloth around the waist.
Friend2: There was the akasha-vani, as well. Remember, that was the reason the parents were in jail to begin with. A voice from the sky told Kamsa that Devaki’s eighth child would be his doom. Krishna was that eighth child. Everything fell into place. More important than seeing God is serving Him, and that is exactly the path Vasudeva chose in the aftermath. He was not simply stunned into submission and silence. He carried through on directions, against all odds and without fear.
“A person in Krishna consciousness and a person not in Krishna consciousness are differentiated by different desires. A Krishna conscious person does not do anything which is not conducive to development of Krishna consciousness. He may even act exactly like the ignorant person, who is too much attached to material activities, but one is engaged in such activities for the satisfaction of his sense gratification, whereas the other is engaged for the satisfaction of Krishna.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Bhagavad-gita, 3.25 Purport)
“This naturally leads to the situation of two people doing identical things. The behavior looks like karma, but the spiritual leader says that the person engaged in
This dichotomy applies across all spectrums of activity. One person sings songs that appeal to their emotions and the difficult moments in life. A different song for a different mood, while another person is always happy to sing the glories of the one who is limitless in His mercy, who is attractive in every way, who can liberate simply through sound:
“Vasudeva saw that wonderful child born as a baby with four hands, holding conchshell, club, disc, and lotus flower, decorated with the mark of Shrivatsa, wearing the jeweled necklace of kaustubha stone, dressed in yellow silk, appearing dazzling like a bright blackish cloud, wearing a helmet bedecked with the vaidurya stone, valuable bracelets, earrings and similar other ornaments all over His body and an abundance of hair on His head.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 3)
Friend1: Which we can see in the vision of the four-handed Narayana. It is something special to behold. Vasudeva is not an ordinary person.
Friend1: And to Kamsa?
“Vasudeva saw that wonderful child born as a baby with four hands, holding conchshell, club, disc, and lotus flower, decorated with the mark of Shrivatsa, wearing the jeweled necklace of kaustubha stone, dressed in yellow silk, appearing dazzling like a bright blackish cloud, wearing a helmet bedecked with the vaidurya stone, valuable bracelets, earrings and similar other ornaments all over His body and an abundance of hair on His head.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 3)
No one is above God, who is the ultimate controller of destiny. The voice had been telling the truth. The eighth child would arrive to the devoted couple, and it would be the Supreme Lord Himself. Vasudeva had visual evidence in the amazing sight of Narayana, the husband of Lakshmi Devi.
“Vasudeva saw that wonderful child born as a baby with four hands, holding conchshell, club, disc, and lotus flower, decorated with the mark of Shrivatsa, wearing the jeweled necklace of kaustubha stone, dressed in yellow silk, appearing dazzling like a bright blackish cloud, wearing a helmet bedecked with the vaidurya stone, valuable bracelets, earrings and similar other ornaments all over His body and an abundance of hair on His head.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 3)
Because of his pure devotion, Hanuman has exceptional abilities. He can leap over oceans, for instance. He can change his size at will, becoming small in an instant and also larger than a tree, if needed. In one famous image, he is carrying a mountain in one hand. This is to rush to the scene of a rescue, with no time to lose in search of a specific herb within that giant mass of land.
Mahadeva is the most renounced, and so he has no issue taking on difficult tasks in the service of others. He maintains poison within his throat, as a means of helping the gods in their battles with the demons, the asura class.
Ganesha is the devoted son of Mahadeva and Parvati Devi. There is a unique story to him receiving an elephant head, but that did not change his disposition or his great qualities. Ganesha has the notable distinction of being worshiped first in every important Vedic ritual.
Kaka is the teacher. He tells the tale of Rama’s appearance and lila in this world. Garuda listens attentively. This real-life exchange also symbolizes the importance of the guru-disciple relationship and the ideal behavior of each participant.
The vision of Narayana confirms Divinity, as Vasudeva saw this image of the Supreme Lord in his newborn child named Krishna. Vasudeva and his wife, Devaki, were devoted to Narayana for several lifetimes, and the fruit of that dedicated worship was receiving God Himself as their beloved son.