“And whoever, at the time of death, quits his body, remembering Me alone, at once attains My nature. Of this there is no doubt.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 8.5)
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अन्त-काले च माम् एव
स्मरन् मुक्त्वा कलेवरम्
यः प्रयाति स मद्-भावं
याति नास्त्य् अत्र संशयः
anta-kāle ca mām eva
smaran muktvā kalevaram
yaḥ prayāti sa mad-bhāvaṁ
yāti nāsty atra saṁśayaḥ
The truth is not presented to be accepted as dogma. It is not a “my religion” against “your religion” concept. Being the origin of this universe, the source of both the material and spiritual energies, Shri Krishna is quite familiar with how the death process takes place.
Quitting the body is not easy. While it may occur quickly, it is anything but seamless for the spirit soul, the animating spark inside, to leave the home to which it has been attached since the time of birth. As soon as the exit from the womb occurred, the paired event was a guaranteed outcome.
जातस्य हि ध्रुवो मृत्युर्
ध्रुवं जन्म मृतस्य च
तस्माद् अपरिहार्ये ऽर्थे
न त्वं शोचितुम् अर्हसिjātasya hi dhruvo mṛtyur
dhruvaṁ janma mṛtasya ca
tasmād aparihārye 'rthe
na tvaṁ śocitum arhasi“For one who has taken his birth, death is certain; and for one who is dead, birth is certain. Therefore, in the unavoidable discharge of your duty, you should not lament.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 2.27)
In the Bhagavad-gita, the charioteer to the bow-warrior Arjuna promises that anyone who thinks of Him at the time of death never has to take birth again. Naturally, this has the corresponding benefit of no more death.
The mention is intentional. At the moment of quitting, there are so many other things that could be on the consciousness, which would then divert the spirit soul away from the imperishable realm.
1. My family
They are dear to me. Prior to entering this world, I had no knowledge of their existence. Some of them, like the children, appeared after me. Through association I became attached. Through their kindness and compassion, their steadiness in lending support, I feel eternally grateful.
When the time comes, I will be concerned over their future. How will they manage? Will they be alright? Will they remember me? Was the time spent in their association meaningful? Are they better off for having known me?
2. My friends
In a similar category, the difference is the lack of a direct relation. The attachment is strictly through association. We met up because of a shared interest, such as college, work, sports, and the like. We remained connected and helped each other out when necessary. Now I am leaving them behind. I should only hope to find such friends again in the future.
3. My job
There is so much responsibility on my plate. I am taking on quite a burden, but I enjoy it. If I leave everything behind, how will the company manage? The projects will have to stop. Not that I am so much smarter than everyone else, but it will take a while for a new person to learn everything.
4. Past mistakes
I wish I hadn’t yelled at my child when they were crying too much. That comment made to that person in school, it wasn’t very nice. I hurt so many people, knowingly and unknowingly. Many regrets, but what can you do? The past is the past, but I can’t seem to shake off these regrettable incidents.
5. Hope for future enjoyment
Maybe this isn’t really the end. Perhaps I will get to live on a little longer. I should enjoy as much as possible. Make plans today to travel the world, to leave behind the pressure. Try new food. Learn to ride a motorcycle; perhaps even jump out of an airplane. Throw caution to the wind.
…
Thinking of Shri Krishna at this crucial moment indicates real surrender. When you are totally helpless, when everything is officially out of your control, in which direction do you turn? Do you leave everything in God’s hands or do you continue the struggle to maintain the false sense of proprietorship in a temporary world?
The extra benefit is that the connection in yoga will automatically take care of any other issues that might tax the mind. The friends and family benefit since they played a role in my attaining liberation. The office responsibilities were always on shaky ground to begin with. The past mistakes are corrected, immediately, since the final outcome is a positive one.
In Closing:
Not needing apology directive,
Since bhakti itself corrective.
Friends and family to see,
That Krishna consciousness in me.
Example on solid ground sitting,
So no worry when body quitting.
Bhagavan of everything taking care,
Of genuine surrender aware.
“My husband Rama is famous throughout the world. He is pure, truthful, and very gentle. He is mighty-armed, has wide eyes, and is always busy working for the welfare of all living beings [sarva-bhuta-hite-ratah].” (Sita Devi speaking to Ravana, Valmiki Ramayana, Aranya Kand, 47.11)
Being in the renounced situation, Shabari does not have much to offer in terms of hospitality. A few wild berries are greatly enjoyed by Rama, as He looks at the sentiment instead of the material value.
But if I sincerely chant the holy names, there is one person who will notice:
“Even if you are considered to be the most sinful of all sinners, when you are situated in the boat of transcendental knowledge, you will be able to cross over the ocean of miseries.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 4.36)
Friend1: A house of worship. Where the Supreme Personality of Godhead lives as the chief resident, in His deity form.
Friend2: Right. You just have to hope that the modern-day offenders have their awakening at some point. No use dwelling on the subject. Just focus on your own efforts and try to learn from the mistakes of others. Try to avoid corruption and don’t offend innocent people who are always chanting the holy names:
“And whoever, at the time of death, quits his body, remembering Me alone, at once attains My nature. Of this there is no doubt.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 8.5)
War gives a clear reminder of a condition that is actually a constant. It is always the case that death can strike at any moment. The same danger that Arjuna faced is the situation for every single person.
In rare circumstances, such as with Maharaja Parikshit, the individual gets advance warning of anta-kale. Usually we don’t know, so the better option is to think of Krishna right now, today. This is an enjoyable experience; it does not need to be forced. The sound of His name is identical to Him, so we can realize His full protection without having to wait until the end:
“A liberated person enjoys happiness by factual experience. He can, therefore, sit silently at any place and enjoy the activities of life from within. Such a liberated person no longer desires external material happiness. This state is called brahma-bhuta, attaining which one is assured of going back to Godhead, back to home.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Bhagavad-gita, 5.24 Purport)
For the first few flights they are terrified at the thought of being stuck in one place for that long. They load up on entertainment options. Movies. Books. Video games. Backup batteries. They plan on trying to forget time while the plane is flying across the globe.
The pastimes are many, and there are varying presentation styles, all for the consumption and benefit of future generations. The original sound of the Sanskrit language is preserved, and the spiritual master ensures that there is no deviation to the meaning.
“In Kali-yuga, the duration of life is shortened not so much because of insufficient food but because of irregular habits. By keeping regular habits and eating simple food, any man can maintain his health. Overeating, over-sense gratification, overdependence on another's mercy, and artificial standards of living sap the very vitality of human energy. Therefore the duration of life is shortened.” (Shrila
The biggest issue is that after the change I still keep typing in my old password when logging in. Force of habit. It takes a while to break free. I hate it. I don’t see a way around it. Every month, the same routine.
At least on a weekly basis try to visit a place of formal worship. Have a regular appointment with the Divine in His archa-vigraha, the worshipable form. These new habits will bring so much benefit. The person in bhakti-yoga will be well on their way towards
“Thus, a man's pure consciousness is covered by his eternal enemy in the form of lust, which is never satisfied and which burns like fire.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 3.39)
Still thinking of the event a week later, you come upon an interesting revelation. The tie-in is the Bhagavad-gita. There are teachings related to kama, which is material desire. The follow-up question to ponder is what would happen if a person’s “perfect day” were repeated.
Chanting is but one outlet, as others have the same affinity for repeated hearing. King Parikshit heard for seven straight days. No food or water in between. No fear of impending death; just increasing bliss in hearing the glories of the Supreme Lord, who is known as Hari, the one who takes away distresses in the devotional path.