“O Rama, You should know that just as fish cannot survive when taken out of water, neither Sita nor I can live without You for even a moment.” (Lakshmana, Valmiki Ramayana, Ayodhya Kand, 53.31)
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न च सीता त्वया हीना न चाहमपि राघव।
मुहूर्तमपि जीवावो जलान्मत्स्याविनोद्धृतौ।।
na ca sītā tvayā hīnā na cāhamapi rāghava।
muhūrtamapi jīvāvo jalānmatsyāvinoddhṛtau।।
It has been the primary means of punishment since before anyone can remember. From the petty to the serious, the degree of the offense determining the length of stay, the prison is one way to assess society. Those who are law-abiding live in the free and open. They can more or less come and go as they please.
If you violate a law of the state, however, there is the potential to be locked up. The threat of jail-time is one way to influence behavior in the positive direction. It is also an incentive for offenders to make deals with prosecutors, to give up valuable information in exchange for leniency.
The idea is that no one likes being confined. They would rather be anywhere else, in fact. Stuck in a single room, likely with other offenders, for days and months, sometimes years – not what the average person looks forward to.
Correspondingly, there are certain life situations that a person might compare to a prison sentence. It is like being stuck in jail for them; they would rather be anywhere else.
1. Working at an office, 9-5
Since this is the standard employment environment in industrialized nations, there are two periods during the day dubbed as “rush hour.” Everyone is trying to get to their respective offices at the same time, creating traffic on the roadways. The trains might be packed, as well, with people comparing themselves to sardines fit into a sealed can.
That references the difficulty in simply reaching the office and then leaving. There is the time in between, where you have to sit in a small space, with other people, and work for what seems like an endless amount of time. After you reach the end of the day, the lasting impression is that you have to repeat the same the following day.
Do this for five days a week, month after month, year after year and you begin to question the routine:
“How is this any different from prison? We are all stuck here. No one can go anywhere. We get a weekend furlough, but that is never enough. Sure, we get to go home at night. That is the lone solace. I just don’t know how people do this for an entire lifetime.”
2. Sitting in an airplane for a long-haul flight
If you are unaccustomed to the journey, this can be quite daunting. It is a microcosm of the office job, except with likely no ability to work on a computer or connect to the internet. The space is smaller, too, with passengers jammed in either side.
Others recommend different techniques to help pass the time.
“Take a pill that helps you sleep. Read a book. Watch movies on the in-cabin entertainment system. Listen to music.”
The hints are helpful, but the fact remains that you are forced to stay in one place for many hours, with no chance of escape. This is the inconvenience brought on by the convenience of air travel, which allows moving between destinations that could be separated by thousands of miles rather quickly.
3. Life in a palace without Shri Rama
Here there is no prison sentence. You are allowed to move around. You can enjoy nature and then return home to royal comfort at night. No need to shop for groceries. Food is in abundant supply and there are expert cooks ready to prepare.
Everything is quiet and peaceful, but to Shri Lakshmana the experience is hellish. This is because the beloved brother Shri Rama will not be there. He will be away from home on something like a prison sentence, but in the reverse. He will be exiled from the community, from the kingdom He was on the precipice of ruling in all dharma.
In the Ramayana we find the comparison to taking a fish out of water. Lakshmana references how the fish cannot survive when removed from its natural habitat. In the same way, neither he nor Sita Devi can survive without the association of Rama, who is the eldest son of King Dasharatha of Ayodhya. Lakshmana is one of three younger brothers, and Sita is Rama’s beloved and devoted wife.
This is the mood of the devotee. Once they have returned to their original and eternal engagement of devotional service, life without the association of the Supreme Personality of Godhead is the equivalent of hell. If they are forced to live without Him, being unable to serve with thoughts, words and deeds, then the life is not worth living. It becomes worse than prison.
Such issues can be resolved through a saving grace known as sound vibration. Uttering the name of Rama helps to remember Him. Remembering Him is like being with Him, and so the maha-mantra helps in coping with a prison-like experience, however it applies to each individual: Hare Krishna Hare Krishna, Krishna Krishna, Hare Hare, Hare Rama Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare.
In Closing:
Job necessary I know,
But again don’t let me go.
Like prison for many hours sitting,
Dreams of how one day quitting.
Devotees the same to receive,
Like when Rama kingdom to leave.
Lakshmana rather at side to stay,
Divine life the only way.
“Sometimes the naughty babies would crawl up to the cowshed, catch the tail of a calf and stand up. The calves, being disturbed, would immediately begin running here and there, and the children would be dragged over clay and cow dung. To see this fun, Yashoda and Rohini would call all their neighboring friends, the gopis.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality Of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 8)
Due to their age, the child cannot yet pronounce the sound from the letter “r.” They are obviously trying to repeat the holy name of Rama, but the sound that emerges is “ahm.” The parents take so much delight from hearing this sound. In total innocence the child is trying their best.
The intent is what counts. With Sanskrit mantras for other purposes, such as advancing materially, removing distress or winning a specific ability, the exact pronunciation is a strict requirement. With bhakti-yoga, any person, from any place in the world, during any time period of life has the potential for complete and full connection that is equivalent with
“Brahma, it is I, the Personality of Godhead, who was existing before the creation, when there was nothing but Myself. Nor was there the material nature, the cause of this creation. That which you see now is also I, the Personality of Godhead, and after annihilation what remains will also be I, the Personality of Godhead.” (Shrimad Bhagavatam, 2.9.33)
The skeptic can take the adi time period to be God. It is synonymous with Him. Just think of the beginning of the creation. That is the Divine. Whether you believe nothing existed or that there were only a few chemicals, that is your basis for creation.
God is without an end. No one can reach the limit to His glories, since the Vedas continue to sing of His gunas. He is not confined to any space nor to any span of existence. He is before time and after it. Acknowledging just these basic principles of an existence creates so much auspiciousness. The consciousness is then poised for full and complete purification, which brings the reward of timeless service to the one who is Himself eternal.
“There is no difference between the holy name of the Lord and the Lord Himself. As such, the holy name is as perfect as the Lord Himself in fullness, purity and eternity. The holy name is no material sound vibration, nor has it any material contamination.” (Padma Purana quoted from The Nectar of Devotion, Ch 13)
The task isn’t too difficult, except you get the same interruptions. You screw on a few columns in the lamp only to have to leave the room. When you continue later you are not sure where you left off. The entire process is so frustrating that afterwards you swear to hire people to do the work in the future.
If a person practices yoga for a few minutes a day and then the rest of the time is spent in ways that corrupt the consciousness, the process isn’t as effective as it could be. The acharyas bless the processes they recommend. They have seen the effectiveness themselves, and so they can pass on valuable wisdom to others. These are life tips helpful in rescuing a person from the cycle of birth and death, which should be the highest objective in a human birth. Even a little effort in
“Illusion means to accept something which is not: maya. Maya means ‘what is not.’ Everyone is accepting the body as the self. If I ask you what you are, you will say, ‘I am Mr. John; I am a rich man; I am this; I am that.’ All these are bodily identifications. But you are not this body. This is illusion.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Shri Ishopanishad, Introduction)
Another comparison is to watching a film in a cinema hall. There is a screen, a projector and one or more members of the audience. On the screen there are fires, explosions, rivers, bridges, guns, thunderstorms, and the like. Different scenes in different places, with a variety of characters.
Maya plays these games because of my desire. The way out of illusion is to simply be engaged in the service of the Supreme Lord. This is the dharma of the soul, which is a particle of the Brahman energy. The instruction from Shri Krishna helps to solve the mystery, to clear the illusion. The more one advances in the culture of genuine
“The bewildered spirit soul, under the influence of the three modes of material nature, thinks himself to be the doer of activities, which are in actuality carried out by nature.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 3.27)
The problem is that the receipt for parking flipped over on the dashboard inside. The person checking the cars had no way to tell if you had a valid parking spot. This must have occurred when you went back into the car to get something. The wind blew inside and inverted the receipt. Nothing you can do now. The damage is done. Perhaps fight the ticket in court, but the hassle is not worth the money saved.
The task is daunting enough, with so many issues to address in everyday life, but a little steadiness and determination go a long way. With some resolve in purpose, the focus remains on the target. Shri Krishna provides the necessary lift to cross over the boundary, where on the other side is the eternal engagement of
“I am also the gambling of cheats, and of the splendid I am the splendor. I am victory, I am adventure, and I am the strength of the strong.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 10.36)
Friend2: Okay, so you have one person who lives in a place with a warm climate. Plenty of sunshine. Another person resides in the same area. Are they both guaranteed to have the same physical makeup? Will they both live as long?
Friend2: He should have realized that man has limitations. The evidence was plain before him, even before Prahlada spoke. It is there for every person to see, in fact. Thankfully, the