“Just to stop the milk from spilling, mother Yashoda at once put Krishna aside and went to the oven. Left in that state by His mother, Krishna became very angry, and His lips and eyes became red in rage. He pressed His teeth and lips, and taking up a piece of stone, He immediately broke the butter pot. He took butter out of it, and with false tears in His eyes, He began to eat the butter in a secluded place.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 9)
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Friend1: Everyone immersed in the culture of Krishna-bhakti has a particular fondness for Damodara-lila.
Friend2: Which is prominently remembered during the month of Kartika, which occurs around October-November.
Friend1: Where devotees sing the Damodarashtakam in praise of Bhagavan as Lord Damodara, the one tied to the mortar by mother Yashoda.
Friend2: Which was punishment for the transgression of intentionally breaking a pot of yogurt in anger. He ran away from the mother, knowing He would be in trouble. He also fed some of the spilled product to the monkeys, His good friends in the community of Vrindavana.
Friend1: A wonderful time of the year to celebrate such a joyous pastime. I might be spoiling the party here, but I know a skeptic or curmudgeon might raise the following objection.
Friend2: Okay.
Friend1: What was the starting point of that lila?
Friend2: What do you mean? Why did Yashoda bind her young child to a mortar?
Friend1: No, no. Why did Krishna break a pot of yogurt?
Friend2: Because Yashoda got up for a second to tend to something cooking in the kitchen.
Friend1: What was she in the middle of that she had to interrupt?
Friend2: Breastfeeding. You don’t know the story?
Friend1: Let’s talk about childrearing for a second. I know in the modern age things are a little different. Parents have to go to work. They likely have to leave the child by themselves for a large amount of time each day. Therefore, we get newer techniques such as “cry it out” and “let the baby sleep in their own room as soon as possible.”
Friend2: Sure, but not everyone adheres to those guidelines.
Friend1: One of the time-honored practices has been weaning the child off of breastfeeding. Sometimes, there is no choice. The mother’s production suddenly drops.
Friend2: Right, and as a person grows up they should be able to eat by themselves.
Friend1: In that light, isn’t there something wrong with the whole Krishna-Yashoda picture in that case? I get it that He asked to be breastfed. Why did Yashoda have to agree? Shouldn’t she have weaned Him off by then?
Friend2: Are you serious with this? We’re talking about Bhagavan, the Supreme Personality of Godhead. If He asks for a full pizza pie for breakfast, any devotee would rush at the chance to feed Him. They wouldn’t think twice about the health or behavioral consequences.
Friend1: But hold on now. This is motherly affection. Yashoda is supposed to be the ideal mother. She isn’t actively aware that Krishna is Divine. Why didn’t she simply refuse His request?
Friend2: Because her love was too strong. She didn’t need to teach Him a lesson.
Friend1: Ah ha. What about tying Him to a mortar, then? Why the lesson in the second case and not the first?
Friend2: It wasn’t to teach Him a lesson. She didn’t want Him to run around and be afraid of her. Tying to the mortar was harmless. She didn’t think that would stop Him from wanting to be breastfed in the future. Devotees are willing to do anything for the Supreme Lord. They show love in the truest sense. There is no consideration of reciprocation. If the “parenting experts” of the day have a problem, big deal. Let us pray that mother Yashoda continues to have the same opportunity, that every devotee will be given such a blessing as to share their offerings with Damodara, who gladly accepts and never declines when the mood is pure.
In Closing:
Mood of sentiment considering,
When offering to Him delivering.
Lord through love only to accept,
Big or small not to reject.
With Yashoda milk from breast preferred,
To loving mother her son deserved.
Eventually to adult age reaching,
So not required strict lesson teaching.
“The Haryashvas, the sons of Prajapati Daksha, were very well behaved, cultured sons, but unfortunately, because of the instructions of Narada Muni, they deviated from the order of their father. When Daksha heard this news, which was brought to him by Narada Muni, he began to lament. Although he was the father of such good sons, he had lost them all. Certainly this was lamentable.” (Shrimad Bhagavatam, 6.5.23)
One time Narada convinced children to abandon material life and remain celibate for the purpose of advancing the consciousness. These happened to be the offspring of one of the progenitors of man, Daksha. Prajapati then cursed Narada as a result, so outraged was he at the perceived offense of speaking the science of self-realization to those with the potential to carry on the family line.
Ravana wanted to punish that devotion. For refusing his advances, Sita Devi had to endure female ogres harassing her day and night. They threatened to kill and then eat her. They conjured up horror stories about Rama, who was not in the area at the time. They made the dreadful situation exponentially worse for that chaste daughter of King Janaka.
“It should be understood that all species of life, O son of Kunti, are made possible by birth in this material nature, and that I am the seed-giving father.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 14.4)
Depending on the particular faith followed by the person receiving the question, a satisfactory answer may not be forthcoming. The Vedic tradition, which passes off something like a science and not mere blind faith, has the authority of God’s direct words as support.
In the material world He expands as the Supersoul in the heart. Through that feature He witnesses everything that is going on. The boon of the human birth is the opportunity to share in these activities. Enjoy with Him. You might even get a chance to witness a creation like Brahma did or a destruction like Markandeya Rishi did. If you are thinking of Krishna at the time of death, you go to His realm, where He is always enjoying.
“One should give up all other processes of self-realization and simply execute devotional service in Krishna consciousness. That will enable one to reach the highest perfection of life. There is no need for one to consider the sinful actions of his past life because the Supreme Lord fully takes charge of him. Therefore one should not futilely try to deliver himself in spiritual realization. Let everyone take shelter of the supreme omnipotent Godhead Krishna. That is the highest perfection of life.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Bhagavad-gita, 12.6-7 Purport)
His Divine Grace A.C. Bhaktivedanta Swami
A higher taste is from bhakti, which is devotion to the source of spirit. Not for any purposes of personal advancement, conducted simply for the pleasure of the object of worship there is a reciprocal benefit. The devotee becomes further inspired to continue in their service, and they become enlightened in the process. They connect in the beginning through the
“Then a voice, sounding like a human being, was heard from the sky which said, ‘O king, this child is rightfully your daughter.’ Thereupon my father, the righteous King of Mithila, was greatly pleased. Obtaining me as his daughter, that ruler of men felt highly blessed and fortunate.” (Sita Devi speaking to Anasuya, Valmiki Ramayana, Ayodhya Kand, 118.31-32)
She is worshipable due to both her pious qualities and her association to the Divine realm. Sita is the same goddess of fortune, Lakshmi Devi, who resides eternally by the side of Narayana, who is the Supreme Lord.
The Rama Darbar is one of many worshipable images descending from the Vedic tradition. All aspects of God and His principal energies are represented. There is the transcendental effect of lack of exhaustion. The meaning is that a person can meditate on this image every single day, for year after year, and never be bored. As the time spent in the Divine shelter increases, the more they appreciate the objects of worship, who are endlessly benevolent in their reciprocation.
“O scion of Bharata [Arjuna], O conqueror of the foe, all living entities are born into delusion, overcome by the dualities of desire and hate.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 7.27)
These are regrettable incidents after the fact. Yet who hasn’t been burned by anger, no matter how much they tried to control their emotions? Who won’t be vulnerable to the same moving forward, as the raging fire of personal desire never seems to be fully under control?
Only He can dispel the illusion. Those fortunate souls who awake into the reality realize what they have been missing for so long. They are kind enough to share it with others, who are eligible to interact through something as simple as sound:
“Prahlada Maharaja, who was truly the supreme learned person, then addressed his class friends in very sweet language. Smiling, he began to teach them about the uselessness of the materialistic way of life. Being very kind to them, he instructed them as follows.” (Shrimad Bhagavatam, 7.5.55)
A similar pastime is described in the
The benefit is the same: progress towards enlightenment. The teacher simply forwards what they have heard. If children of Daityas, which is a race known to be atheistic and against the principles of dharma, can prove to be receptive and attentive, then even the person today struggling in the ocean of nescience has a chance to revive their dormant consciousness of God.