“Sin will overcome us if we slay such aggressors. Therefore it is not proper for us to kill the sons of Dhritarashtra and our friends. What should we gain, O Krishna, husband of the goddess of fortune, and how could we be happy by killing our own kinsmen?” (Arjuna, Bhagavad-gita, 1.36)
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पापम् एवाश्रयेद् अस्मान्
हत्वैतान् आततायिनः
तस्मान् नार्हा वयं हन्तुं
धार्तराष्ट्रान् स-बान्धवान्
स्व-जनं हि कथं हत्वा
सुखिनः स्याम माधव
pāpam evāśrayed asmān
hatvaitān ātatāyinaḥ
tasmān nārhā vayaṁ hantuṁ
dhārtarāṣṭrān sa-bāndhavān
sva-janaṁ hi kathaṁ hatvā
sukhinaḥ syāma mādhava
A friend is down on their luck. They are in a difficult situation of the mind; one from which they can’t seem to escape. The sadness and despair carries forward into every moment of the day. They are wondering as to the point of it all. Why go on when the end is guaranteed? Why proceed when others have left this world?
Looking for advice, you recommend the Bhagavad-gita. An authorized translation and commentary of the original Sanskrit work, the words spoken between guru and disciple provide guidance, assurance and clarity for any person seeking the positive direction.
1. Success
This would be a strange thing to have to cope with. After all, the self-help titles in the bookstore relate to success. How to be positive. How to win in the face of adversity. Implied is the truth that failure is the more common scenario. It is easier, for sure. Just don’t try. Don’t even make an attempt and you will surely fail.
But success is not everything. Time continues. After I win the championship, I need something to do. I may have won every big case in my law firm, but when the time comes to retire, those successes will not help me to deal with the transition to a different kind of life.
In the Bhagavad-gita, Arjuna is worried over success. War is an uncertain business. No matter how skilled you are, no matter how many people you have on your side, a few surgical strikes from the opponents and you are significantly wounded.
Arjuna knew that success would mean taking over the kingdom, but of what value was that? He was renounced in spirit, though officially in the kshatriya occupation. His duty was to protect the innocent from injury. He was the best in the world at it, and yet he was bewildered.
2. Failure
Shri Krishna favored moving forward. This was the advice specific to that time, but in the more general sense it is the idea of carrying out prescribed duties with a renounced spirit. At the foundation is attachment to Krishna Himself, who is the founder of righteous principles, dharma.
What if Arjuna should fail? What if he is no longer the best at shooting arrows from a bow? What if the side of adharma, the Kauravas, should win? What if moving forward brings lethal punishment?
यदृच्छया चोपपन्नं
स्वर्ग-द्वारम् अपावृतम्
सुखिनः क्षत्रियाः पार्थ
लभन्ते युद्धम् ईदृशम्yadṛcchayā copapannaṁ
svarga-dvāram apāvṛtam
sukhinaḥ kṣatriyāḥ pārtha
labhante yuddham īdṛśam“O Partha, happy are the kshatriyas to whom such fighting opportunities come unsought, opening for them the doors of the heavenly planets.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 2.32)
Krishna gives the assurance that as long as the prescribed duties are carried out, there is always an auspicious destination. Kshatriyas generally welcome such combat, because it guarantees heaven on both sides. With success, there is the protection against injury; which is in line with duty.
With failure, there is immediate ascension to heaven. The ultimate sacrifice bringing an appropriate reward. This means that even if we fail in our efforts, we are not entirely doomed. As long as Shri Krishna is pleased, then the result is always the same.
3. Life
I am in this body right now. I took birth at some time in the past. I will have to exit eventually. What do I do now? How should I spend my time? Binge-watch television shows? Drink one intoxicating beverage after another? Work long hours at the office until I am into old age?
Bhagavad-gita gives the advice of prescribed duties. There are generally four divisions for the proper functioning and maintenance of society. Arjuna was in the second division, the royal administrators. It was his duty to fight and without expectation of reward.
The spiritual master in that case was Shri Krishna, and in our situation the representative of Krishna gives guidance on how to proceed. He details the prescribed duties, if we are unable to discern ourselves.
Even if we are already stuck in a previously chosen occupation, there is no need to abandon everything. Working with the renounced spirit, while attached to the Supreme Personality of Godhead, will lead to the same destination as officially renouncing material life and begging for a living, spreading the science of self-realization in the travels.
4. Death
Bhagavad-gita is ideally suited for dealing with this situation. Someone has passed on. They were with me mere moments ago. Now they have departed, forever. I will never speak to them again. They can no longer communicate with me.
It is a sobering reality, since I am headed for the same destination. So is everyone else around me. What will happen to us? Does the existence cease?
Shri Krishna addresses this topic almost immediately in the discussion with Arjuna. The spirit soul is eternal in its existence. The self-realized person is not bewildered by the changes to the body, which is different from the soul.
देहिनो ऽस्मिन् यथा देहे
कौमारं यौवनं जरा
तथा देहान्तर-प्राप्तिर्
धीरस् तत्र न मुह्यतिdehino ‘smin yathā dehe
kaumāraṁ yauvanaṁ jarā
tathā dehāntara-prāptir
dhīras tatra na muhyati“As the embodied soul continually passes, in this body, from boyhood to youth to old age, the soul similarly passes into another body at death. The self-realized soul is not bewildered by such a change.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 2.13)
I can lament. I can rejoice. I can be indifferent. Regardless of how I view death, it will take place. I will also continue to live, in some capacity, in some place. Arjuna stared kala, eternal time, right in the face. He emerged victorious due to the support of Shri Krishna and His timeless words of wisdom.
In Closing:
Tragic loss having to cope,
Feeling like there’s no hope.
Worthwhile even to try,
Destined for death, so why?
Same on victory’s side spinning,
Of what avail after kingdom winning?
Bhagavad-gita with these issues and more,
The purpose and what living meant for.
“Shri Rama’s holy name is like a numeral, and all religious practices are like zero. When the numeral is not there, zero means nothing. But when it is present, the resultant value increases tenfold.” (Dohavali, 10)
Friend1: One of those philosophical truths is this concept of ones and zeroes. Something to the effect that if you have a lot of ones, in terms of the digit, then the numerical value isn’t great. As soon as you add some zeroes then the value increases exponentially.
Friend2: That is when you add Krishna consciousness. Goswami
“Shrila Vishvanatha Chakravarti Thakura explains in this regard that the very word harih means ‘one who takes away.’ If one connects himself with Hari, the Supreme Personality of Godhead, the Lord takes away all his miseries, and in the beginning the Lord also superficially appears to take away all his material possessions, reputation, education and beauty.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Shrimad Bhagavatam, 8.19.32 Purport)
If I have sumptuous wealth, then the expectation is that one of the greater concerns in life will be absent. I won’t have to worry about money. This means that I don’t have to get a job if I don’t want to. I am taken care of. Stress-free.
Better to make this the final birth. One name for the Almighty is Hari. This references a person who takes away. For the devoted souls, sometimes He removes their opulences as a favor to them, to prevent the vulnerability to an inflated ego. I may not like it when Hari intervenes in this way, but He is much kinder than I could ever imagine.
“The Blessed Lord said: Many, many births both you and I have passed. I can remember all of them, but you cannot, O subduer of the enemy!” (Bhagavad-gita, 4.5)
A current resident has no experience of the original event. They may not even be sure as to the reason for the worship, but they follow nonetheless. Parampara has passed the tradition on, and in the same way many important aspects of an existence come to light through this connection.
The game is interesting because you can’t actually go back in time. You only know of someone based on the accounts passed on by others. With parampara we learn of amazing personalities like the Pandava brothers, Bhishmadeva, King Janaka, Shri Hanuman, and Prahlada Maharaja. The list is almost endless, and in many cases the association is through the direct words spoken. A lasting impression to save future generations from the sadness and despair of a material existence.
“Krishna is the Supreme Personality of Godhead, the cause of all causes, the primeval Lord Govinda. Ishvarah paramah krishnah sach-chid-ananda-vigrahah anadir adir govindah sarva-karana-karanam.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Bhagavad-gita, 7.3 Purport)
“How did this all come together? Who was the designer? I know it didn’t occur randomly. How did they dig into the ground? How did they create sufficient space for travel? How did they know the effort would be successful and sustainable for many years to come?
In fact, this is one way to understand God. Explain the concept to someone who is unfamiliar. Perhaps a child inquiring into the religious practices of the elders. One way they can know is to understand the concept of an origin. A beginning to a beginning. Climb up the ladder of ancestry and the person at the top will be Shri Krishna, the ever-youthful and all-attractive one.
“Bhumi assumed the shape of a cow and presented herself before Lord Brahma with tears in her eyes. She was bereaved and was weeping just to invoke the Lord's compassion. She related the calamitous position of the earth, and after hearing this, Lord Brahma became much aggrieved, and he at once started for the ocean of milk, where Lord Vishnu resides.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 1)
Friend1: Here is one thing to ponder. There is the avatara of Shri Krishna. That experience is well-documented in works like Mahabharata and
Friend1: You have to ask how something like that can happen. Krishna is there. Why the defeat? He was on Arjuna’s side and so the Pandavas emerged victorious in the Bharata War. No asura sent by Kamsa could harm the cowherd boys in Gokula. A jealous Indra could not wash away the residents of Vrindavana. Krishna and
“Death does not wait for any man; it will immediately carry out its duty. Since death must take away the living entity without hesitation, it is the ultimate God realization of the atheists, who spoil their lives thinking of country, society and relatives, to the neglect of God consciousness.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Shrimad Bhagavatam, 4.28.22 Purport)
“It is now my time to give. I will serve my country. I will honor the flag. I will make a meaningful contribution. Then I will be able to sleep at night, removing some of the guilt I felt up until now.”
Let me take care of my God consciousness first. That will be the best example to share with the ones I care about, which includes society and relatives. If I can rescue them from the repeated cycle of birth and death, I have offered the greatest gift. If I can induce