“Once the Lord desired to go early in the morning with all His cowherd boy friends to the forest, where they were to assemble together and take lunch. As soon as He got up from bed, He blew a buffalo horn and called all His friends together. Keeping the calves before them, they started for the forest.” (Krishna, The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Vol 1, Ch 12)
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Friend1: Sometimes you play this game at a party.
Friend2: Twenty questions?
Friend1: More of a philosophical one. Not so much a game where you keep score, but a way to get people to open up. Learn something about the participants. See how they think, what they value in life, who they admire, and so forth.
Friend2: What is the game?
Friend1: If you could have dinner with one person, either living today or from past history, who would it be?
Friend2: Does it have to be a real person or is a fictional character okay?
Friend1: Whatever you like. Choosing a fictional character would make everyone else even more eager to listen, I would presume.
Friend2: What are some common answers?
Friend1: Could be a relative who has passed on. Another chance to meet with them, to hear their voice and the like.
Friend2: Oh, that’s a good one. Only so much appreciation you can show in separation.
Friend1: Another one is a president of a country from the past. Someone who knows a lot of secrets but hasn’t yet revealed them. Or maybe even a paramour.
Friend2: Right. Like if you prefer being with your wife, why not make the dinner something that already takes place on a regular basis?
Friend1: Exactly. Anyway, I was thinking of the spiritual side of things. Someone in the bhakti-yoga tradition would not necessarily ask to have dinner with God.
Friend2: Why not? What is the basis for your claim?
Friend1: As His Divine Grace Shrila Bhaktisiddhanta Sarasvati Thakura says, the goal should be to make God notice you. Followers of the bhakti tradition generally aren’t eager for personal darshana.
Friend2: A direct viewing, so to speak.
Friend1: Where I see God. I already believe in Him. I already know that He is everywhere. Seeing Him face to face would be cool, but it is not everything.
Friend2: Yes, because there is always something after. I like to reference Shri Hanuman in this regard. He had the meeting, the darshana, with Shri Rama and His younger brother Lakshmana. That was certainly not the end. Rather, it was the beginning of a great relationship in dedicated service that continues to this day.
Friend1: Okay, so is that the reason? Devotees want to serve instead of just sit and talk?
Friend2: What is to be gained by such a short meeting? I want to feel like He is always with me; not just for a set period of time.
Friend1: I am glad you mentioned this, because I have a counterargument. In the Shrimad Bhagavatam we have the vivid description of Shri Krishna, the Supreme Personality of Godhead, leaving home to go play in the fields with His friends. They plan on having lunch together.
Friend2: Yes, there are many beautiful paintings depicting the incident.
Friend1: Do you not see the contradiction? If I don’t want the dinner meeting with God, why do these people enjoy the same thing?
Friend2: It is not a fleeting achievement, nor is it a hypothetical. The lunch in the forest is one aspect to the eternal way of living in the spiritual land of Vrindavana. These boys are always His associates. They do much more than sit and eat together. This is proof that devotional service, bhakti-yoga, is the way to go. You won’t need to rely on a single meeting. Every day you will get to offer the best food dishes and feel as if the all-attractive one is by your side, never to leave.
In Closing:
When in spiritual world to reside,
Shri Krishna by your side.
So lunch a daily meeting,
Not a chance fleeting.
Where having only minutes now,
And wondering when again how.
Devotion’s path this chance giving,
Where in His company eternally living.
“Thus I have explained to you the most confidential of all knowledge. Deliberate on this fully, and then do what you wish to do.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 18.63)
Both sides featured some of the best fighters in the world. Respected personalities could not settle their differences peacefully. War was the only option. Like the Supersoul in the heart, Krishna remained neutral. He did not choose sides, but when one individual sincerely asked for direction, Bhagavan was there to provide it.
Yet that service has to be voluntarily accepted. Compulsory love violates the requisite conditions. When the choice is made after a proper analysis of the different options, then the likelihood of remaining on that path in the future greatly increases, reducing the chances of ever associating with the illusory energy known as maya again.
“Narayana, the Supreme Personality of Godhead, the well-wisher and friend of all living entities, formerly explained this transcendental knowledge to the great saint Narada. Such knowledge is extremely difficult to understand without the mercy of a saintly person like Narada, but everyone who has taken shelter of Narada's disciplic succession can understand this confidential knowledge.” (Prahlada Maharaja, Shrimad Bhagavatam, 7.6.27)
Narayana is a sakha to the naras because He stays with them. He is Supersoul. Also an atma, but parama, or supreme. Whereas jivatma is susceptible to illusion, Paramatma is always in a superior position. Though this expansion of the Divine is not visible to the eyes, it is as much potent as Narayana Himself, who is known to be opulently adorned and show four arms.
Spreading the glories of the Supreme Personality of Godhead is the most blissful engagement, and it also does the most good for everyone involved. Prahlada took joy in speaking of Narayana, and the Daitya children were most benefitted by that association.
“Prahlada Maharaja said, agunena ca kankshitena: if one is engaged in the transcendental loving service of the lotus feet of the Lord, he does not need anything in terms of dharma, artha, kama or moksha.” (Shrila Prabhupada, Shrimad Bhagavatam, 7.6.25 Purport)
Friend1: The reason I bring this up today is because in a verse of the
Friend2: The four rewards are something like restricted enjoyment, for a higher purpose. But they still belong to the material category. Prahlada is saying that in devotional service everything is already available. There is no need to strive for anything material. The Supreme Lord has transcendental qualities, gunas. In staying with those gunas, in glorifying them, the outcome will always be auspicious. There is no need for an extra endeavor in a risky business that is limited by time, intelligence and proper association.
“O Dhananjaya, all this work cannot bind Me. I am ever detached, seated as though neutral.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 9.9)
“Morning until night. The entire day occupied. I didn’t even do anything, but I feel as if I never want to move again. Let me sleep for the next few days.”
As evidenced by the hypothetical situations depicted above, the material world is a difficult place in which to live. To overcome the ocean of birth and death, the cycle of repeated suffering and temporary enjoyment, is almost impossible. But someone who has the assistance of Krishna, won through pure devotion, can easily cross beyond it.
“It should be understood that all species of life, O son of Kunti, are made possible by birth in this material nature, and that I am the seed-giving father.” (Lord Krishna, Bhagavad-gita, 14.4)
Friend2: Not only the human beings. The animals. The plants. The trees. The planets. Is not everybody related to Narayana?
Friend2: He dominates. The material substance does nothing on its own. The combination of mother and father leading to children. Not one, either; innumerable.
“Generally, the wealth of misers never allows them any happiness. In this life it causes their self-torment, and when they die it sends them to hell.” (Lord Krishna, Shrimad Bhagavatam, 11.23.15)
Friend2: It is not to say that they are innocent, that they are not getting payback from nature for living in excess.
Friend2: Narayana, the source of men, is inside of every person. He is with the thief and the police officer. He is with the cleaning person and the one who owns the home. He is with both the driver and the passenger. This does not mean that He ever becomes poor. There is no such thing as a daridra-narayana. Narayana is always the Supreme Personality of Godhead Narayana, the husband of the goddess of fortune.